Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Love: Myth vs Reality

Myth No. 5
Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

Adversity can fuel love, but it can also pulverize it.  If you have a pattern of long-distance loves, examine your motivation.  To put it more bluntly:  What is in it for you?  Do you want the relationship or the adventure?  Are you frightened to truly reveal yourself in the gritty light of mundane reality?  Do you feel more charming over the Net than across the pillow?  Lack of physical touch kills love.

PS:  When you really love someone, setting him free or even giving him two weeks of "space" is about as easy as cutting off your hand.

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